Hi Kathryn, Join the many of us here that are adjusting to this new life of not gambling with our significant other. It can be challenging to say the least. Those of us that did gamble with our loved one find it difficult because that is what we are used to. That was our form of entertainment and it was fun at the beginning and quite innocent but as you know, it turned out to be a big mistake. Now we have to find new ways of relating. It’s hard sometimes because we are different creatures, us men and women. We never noticed it before because we were too busy gambling. Now it is facing us and we have to deal with it. Darn!! No fun, it seems. Don’t give up, as I know you have not and just needed to vent. This is a good place to do it. Ever notice, things just work themselves out sometimes when you just let it go? Works for me anyways. Take care and have a great day. Danielle
