[vera]

It’s not easy for you trying to deal with your mum if she refuses to co operate, Lizbeth. Maybe she would respond better to outside help. Was there a Care Plan drawn up when she left hospital? Time to go back to the drawing board from what you describe. I know you need to care for yourself too but when it’s your mother you can’t of course walk away.
Very stressful for all concerned. Good that you enjoyed your vacation.