Hi n1ck, and welcome. How about you use this as a way to stop? You have to stop or you have to tell her. Try as hard as you can to make yourself stick to it and see what happens. The next time you gamble you have to tell her, plain and simple. I’m not of the mindset that telling people is always the best because if it causes her to change or leave, the situation would put you in a spiral that would keep you gambling for a while. Try to stop. Its what’s best all ways around and it would provide the motivation you need.
