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Don14765
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Jvr: I too, struggle with being alone..
Yesterday I had a tough day
Being alone- but I did some delivery of food
And the day went by…..
I now try (although it’s hard!)
To have an “attitude of gratitude “
Look for the positive…
When days like yesterday happened, it’s not easy, but I just have to search and the positive is there…..
Also-
Try and look for the things you do well…
And think/write them down?

I also am trying to accept God’s plan for me.
Maybe he wants me to be alone for the time being?
I have tried dating Apps,
Etc
Nothing seems to work….
So that it could be an indication that right now I am supposed to be alone?

On the other hand, I went to the bank a few weeks ago and I was able to get a loan fairly easily -so maybe that is the positive I am talking about?

And I think that you were mentioning that in your past when you had days like yesterday you would’ve just said F-it
And gambled or used ….
But lately you haven’t !
That’s a positive!

I once read saying that I think could be helpful: “we are so busy adding up our Mis- fortunes, that we forget to count our blessings”