Rising: thanks for verifying that!
It’s just the biggest problem for me, is to know that this is a “reverse“ actions that is needed to stop gambling?
If I want to get bigger muscles I need to go to the gym and work out hard and have a good diet and have a good mental state as well
If I want to get praise from people I have to work hard, give things to people , listen to them and be a nice person…
But for gambling, the best success is to do nothing? For instance today is Tuesday, January 10, in order for me to be successful today I do nothing, I spend nothing online, I don’t buy any lottery tickets, I don’t go on sports sites …nothing …and I will be successful??
I have a hard time accepting that as I have tried to be successful all my life and all I know is to work really hard… this is a different kind of work if you know what I mean:)
But yes surrender is the key, because no matter how I try and call “beat” gambling …it always seems to come back and take my money and bite me in the end…