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I was thinking …

Surrender for me means my way do not work, I follow your way.

Submissive for me means the wife is submissive to the husband and trust the husband to make the best decision for the family and follow his leadership.

When I submit to a Higher Power, I will follow my Higher Power, wherever my Higher Power leads me, regardless what happen. It is not a transaction, trade off, bargain or exchange.