I read somewhere that the owing money and having debt is passive stress and gambling is active stress. I really gravitated to this. I owe some money still on my credit cards, but the anxiety and stress that brings me is far less than the idea of gambling again. I don’t know how I ever thought I would win, and If I did, how much would enough be?
Asdfghost – your whole world is one big ball of possibilities. Stop wallowing in your sadness over a few poor decisions. These choices you made were in the past, keep taking steps in the right direction. Don’t let this dictate your whole life, and ruin each day. Look at the bigger picture here, you are capable of sculpting your life into anything you want it to be… don’t let some dumb choices you made in your early 20’s be the story of your whole life. That would be a tragedy. ❤️❤️