Thanks for posting to my thread, Cathy.
How is your son doing?
GA may not be the best place for him to meet a GF , unless of course she was well established in recovery.
The only thing you can do is stay focused on your own recovery. It seems selfish but when we get caught up in outside chaos it takes our peace.
Do you ever come to the GT Groups for All Members?
Maybe we will meet up there soon. One on this pm if it suits you, time wise.