Cat, I happened to be home doing a few things around my home before returning to my Mom’s and saw your post!! It is just what I needed today as I was feeling a little down. Guess I was having a pity party!!! I have learned a lot from you and others here also. I think that it awesome that we have a place to go (GT) for support and that we learn from each other. I feel blessed to know many of you here and for all of your support. Today is going to be a better day! I don’t have internet at my Mom’s house, bummer!!! I need to come home for a bit everyday to refocus and get away. Cat, thanks again for making my day!! You are a awesome person. The support that you gave me during my Husband’s illness and after his death is something that I will never forget. You helped me get through it!!! Take care.