Hi Adele, I don’t mean to but in, so pardon me if my note seems intrusive. I’ve been following your story with interest and just wanted to let you know that I hope you get better soon. Both physically and emotionally. We’re all on your side and can see your energy and health is waning. Things have changed drastically for you, and it will probably be some time before adjustments to your emotional independence and new mental models can be fully made. I can see you’ve tried to be strong and generous for your CG in the past. You’ve also been a supportive voice for many of us here on GT, including me. I want to return the favor and let you know I’m sending good thoughts your way. Take care and don’t forget to be kind to yourself! All the Best, Sirena