Hello Berber and thank you for your honest update. You have already had some wise replies, so I just want to send you my good wishes. It really does seem to take a long time for the full benefits of changes in the cg to be felt by the loved ones – frustrating, but not surprising, given the tenacity of the addiction and its effects. But YOU are not governed by that addiction and can keep your focus on your own protection and well-being. And you will experience your own growth and well-being.
Wishing you all good things that you need.