It is good to hear from you and it’s good your husband is remaining gamble free. I am sorry to hear how hard it is sometimes, but I think you have prepared yourself well and have a lot of understanding of the difficulties. You knew it was not some easy ‘happy ever after’, but a path demanding committment and work. It’s great that you are more able to ‘let him be responsible’ for himself – keep on with this and remember to look after yourself in the ways you have found to be effective, so that you keep yourself strong and safe. You will find your contentment and peace, I am sure.
Wishing you well.