As Jenny says, you have come to right place. I also echo her thoughts about the priority being that you look after YOU. It can seem counter-intuitive when you see so clearly that your husband has this big problem. But it is true that none of us can ‘save’ a gambler or ‘make’ him understand the reality, no matter how much we love him. Only he can learn his own truth and make a decision to walk in recovery.
But we have some power to live our own life well and to look after ourselves. That is the start of a new journey. We cannot say what the precise destination will look like, but we can support you as you travel a new path.
Hoping to hear more from you.

Best wishes,