Hello James!
I am a CG.
If you were my husband, I would hope that you would have me banned from the casino and report those illegal moneylenders to the police!
She is dealing with criminals! She must be desperate for money.
Maybe she needs to go to rehab?
I fully understand how distressing all this is for you especially when you have a young baby.
Every time my husband discovered I was gambling behind his back, I would immediately “attack” him and throw up all his bad points . That’s a CG’s defence.
I hope and pray things work out for you and your little family.
Divorce is not the answer to gambling addiction!
There is a lot of help available!