Hi CraigM,
Well done on coming here and getting the support you need. I think telling your fiancé was a very brave 1st step. Saying it out loud and telling someone face to face Really shows your strength of character and your want/need to beat this. You sound like a really decent guy and I hope you manage to work through it all together. I agree gambling brings out the worst in us, the stress and the worry of losses definitely brought out of the worst in me. I never thought of myself as a greedy selfish person until gambling.
Stay strong, you can do this. Keep coming back. Reading everyone’s struggles and successes have really helped me and I believe I can do it to.