Hi JennyT
I agree with Vera… addicts thrive on chaos … anything to take the spotlight off themselves and get you thinking its your problem (sorry Vera if that sounds harsh – just my experience). It’s not that he is going out of his way to hurt you it’s just the only way to keep the addiction going.
I actually blocked my son’s # from my cell phone as I couldn’t trust myself to not react. You will get played as long as you react and again Vera not to sound insensitive … CG are very good at spinning things and getting what they need.
Maybe for now keep any communication to an absolute minimum . Leave him to find his way.