Hi Kpat, great post! These urges are over whelming sometimes but I can see you determined not to be overwhelmed. You are right – our self respect does return and in time so will our financial security. I can’t wait to able to enjoy things that are currently forbidden to me like shopping, going out etc. After your recent post about your son I have put an “emergency £20” into the glove compartment of my car to be used strictly in an emergency situation when I’m out n about!! Hope the urges have subsided Kpat
