This is exactly where you need to be. You haven’t got everything on top of you and the pressure has eased. The road ahead wont be easy, but at least you can plan and have a strategy without having all of the other burdens you had only 3 weeks ago.
I used to visualise you in this position without all the clutter bogging you down.
Things do happen for a reason, I strongly believe that and you’re not devoid of a support network which is vital. Whether you use GA, GT, family and friends or a combination of all of them, you’ll be fine and you’re in a good place to rebuild your life.
Take it easy mate, I’ll post again before I go to GMA.