I see velvet has already replied to you. She will help you a lot on here but I wanted you to know that as I read your post I had the strangest feeling as it could have been written by me.!
I am seperated from my CG and we have a 4 year old daughter. My CG addiction is very active and he is not doing anything about it.
I completely understand what you have written especially in relation to your son. I have been using this site for months now and wanted you to know I have received compassion and undertanding and good advice to help me deal with all my issues.
I just wanted to say ‘hi’ and to let you know I do understand!!!