I am the bully (as well as numerous other not so nice things) that Sad has been referring to in her posts. I started following your thread since you started posting on the F & F side occasionally. I was hesitant for posting on your thread for fear that it would not be welcome but really wanted to offer my support to you. I know I am painted in a different light but I want for nobody to suffer with this addiction.
Sorry for the s**tstorm that this has created.
PS – You had written in one of your posts that “God loves a trier” – It’s become my new mantra.