Hi Vera, you could give all funds to your husband, you could report your credit/debt cards lost the day before so that they are frozen. New ones will have new security numbers on, you could ask your husband or someone else to scratch those off for you before you see them. The blocking software that others have mentioned is another option as well.
There are lots of things you can do to keep yourself safe. Now all you have to do is choose to do them.
Stay safe, in every sense of the word.