I am sorry for you, this happens sometimes with people that are totally in gambling. My wife tried a lot of ways to make me stop gambling and she finally made me change my mind not to spend the family money. Now she is allowing me to play once in a month, she manages our budget, so she gives me 100$ and I spend them in the casino the way I want. It was hard for me to accept, to let her manage the budget, but I understood, that if I don’t want to lose my family I have to do that. So you should try to talk to him, tell him to let you manage the budget of the family. Try to talk with him and don’t make him angry, this will rise another conflict.
Harrison