[charles]

I have surrendered as well Sara.

An analogy I have heard somewhere, or read here,is that if I got in the ring with Anthony joshua he would beat the hell out of me. If I was stupid enough to stand up or get back in the ring then he would beat me again. Now I might be able to do some ducking and diving, maybe occasionally hurt his knuckles with my chin, but he would beat me every time. Stop getting in the ring and I am fine and free to get on with everything else life has to offer. Same with gambling – I have surrendered to the bookies and Im not getting back in that ring. 🙂