I think we do unknowingly keep things going by giving in but as Velvet often says we do all the wrong things for the right reasons. This isn’t a quick “we know what’s wrong and so we will just fix it” situation Jenny. Everyone involved including your son has been effected by this. It is a learning process for all of you.
I think one of the hardest things is when things are going well and we think everything is good and we’ve beat this. Then bam it happens again and we are so angry, disappointed, frustrated and feel we’ve been made a fool of.
Don’t expect to much of yourself… just keep getting back on that horse and do your best!
