thankyou so much everyone for your kind posts.
coming back on here after not posting for a while has just reminded me what a boost it is to get such support from so many people that understand and live through the experiences i have. for any of you that visit f@f you may be able to guess who my wife is who has shared all the highs and lows over our time together. i say this as i know the support from those on f’@f for her has been an essential part in inabelling her to try to understand the actions of a compulsive gambler and to help us work through things together. i would just urge any cg in a relationship to think about asking their partner to visit the forum. as i firmly believe it can only benefit both yoursand their recovery.