Thanks for your replies, he didn’t gambled that night and he hasn’t for 4 months now!! He has thrown himself into working out at the gym!!
I am always on my guard now. That was the 1st time he had been like that. I told him the reasons I turned the router off! He did say he realised why I had done it as I thought he was gambling!! He did say that the last 4 months have made him realise what he has done and put me through!! He says he wants us to do things etc and have nice things! He is also aware that I’m never going to put up with gambling anymore and he knows I will carry out my consequences. I’m a much stronger person now and will not enable ever again!!
We have had a childfree weekend and spent some quality time together, which was really nice!! We had a good time