Hi Kathryn, I’m glad you are looking at this situation through all the angles. By the time the DNA test come back, you will be able to handle whatever the results are. Know one knows what they would do in your situation. You just have to follow your heart. If God took you to this, He will walk you through this. That is my motto. I will be thinking about you tomorrow. Maybe you should find something to do that will take your mind off that meeting tomorrow. Please stay strong. Remember your husband is going through all this also. You are not alone…………NancyLife isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass … it’s about learning how to dance in the rain.