Kathryn, I’m glad you are feeling happy today. And 40 days wow. My counsellor asked me did I ever think I could stop gambling that long? It feels good doesn’t it? Remember to keep your barriers up. Yes the warm wash rag is a good idea. It will help open the eye faster. Have a happy day……….NancyLife isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass … it’s about learning how to dance in the rain.