I thought i would have a ‘quick’ read through your thread and i have to say it turned into a rather long read! Blimey, you have had it tough, how the hell have you managed to keep going???
I think you have handled this situation very well and i fully understand your feelings of anger and hurt, i know if i was in your position i would feel hatred for this other woman, you have done brilliantly not to gamble during this time and to manage to stil come on here and support others.
You are obviously a wonderful mother who cares deeply for her family, I hope you enjoy your weekend away with your husband and manage to get some peace and rest.
Keep up the good work 40 + days is fantastic!!!