I am glad you are keeping strong through all this. I think all men would rather keep their head in the sand and let the wives do all the mental work. My husband is like that. Today I have to call his high school where he graduated 31 years ago to get a copy of his diploma. He needs it for his new job. But I really don’t mind. Kathryn, when all this is done that is the time you will have to keep your guard up. When there is a break and everything is going good, that is when that urge will hit big time. So beware. Have a good day………….NancyLife isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass … it’s about learning how to dance in the rain.