Kathryn, What you are feeling is betrayal. That’s hard to swallow. In 10 more days the waiting will be over. Damien loves you. Fester is nothing! You two have had a good marriage and this has brought you both closer. Not all bad is coming out of this situation. I don’t understand why Fester waited all these years to contact you both. What is expected of your husband if he is the father. Have you asked him this. Are you to be a part of Sasha’s life? You can’t blame the daughter for the sins of the parents. Please remember that. She is innocent. I pray it all works out for your family…………….NancyLife isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass … it’s about learning how to dance in the rain.