Kathryn i am also a cg and have a daughter that is 19. I have not gambled in 15 days. I took my daughter out last night instead of going to casino. How good i feel this morning we had so much fun together. I am also mad at myself for the time I have missed in the last 8 years.I did apologize to her and she has turned out to be a great support to me. Saw the movie Blind Side by the way it was a great inspirational movie. I am so looking forward to making up for lost time with her gamble free. best of luck lets hug our daughters today.