Yes, Ell, Velvet is a fantastic woman, who has used her painful experiences to learn about addiction AND about recovery for addicts and for those of us who are not addicts but do love an addict in our family.
I just want to add that you, too, are a fantastic woman. You are in a different place and different stage of life, but, yes, you are also fantastic.
I have been reading your posts and feeling for you in your struggles and am amazed at how you can cope with so much. (I cannot cope if I am too busy.)
I am glad you are able to get support here and I continue to hope with you for a good future for you and all your family.
All good wishes, Monique. xKeep hope alive.