Hi Tanya
Sorry about that.   Time ran out.
Keep asking questions here and in Gamanon and looking after yourself first.   The forum is here all the time and Harry gave you the group *****.   It is when we look after ourselves that we change and confuse the addiction.  The addiction seeks to crush you – it ***** to demoralise you so that you enable.   Sadly it usually succeeds until you dig into yourself and find the person that is ‘you’, who is still there and stronger than his addiction.   It is this change that will help you do and say the right things when you see the CG you love.  
It was great to meet you and you are doing the right things – well done