(((Liz))) It does sound like you have been really ill with that flu. Anybody who has lost a family member knows what an incredibly hard journey grief is. I had a day when my brother **** that I felt very suicidal as I didn’t think I could bear such emotional pain. It’s important to ask for support, and if a person can’t get it from family members, then they need to get it through resources available in their community. With grief a person has good days and bad days, and also very bad days. I thought that it was amazing that you were able to still take your grandson as much as you did, take your Mom to see her sister, and make the journey to come see me, so soon after your husband ****. I know that you are stressed out about the situation with your husband’s daughter, which by the way, seems ridiculous that you should have to share any of your and your husband’s assets with her. Once that is resolved, you won’t be as stressed out. It sounds to me like your decision to move to other housing, is already made, reading between the lines. A new start will probably be good for you. Experts recommend that a person wait a year before making any big changes when a person is grieving, in case a person regrets those changes down the line. Hope you’re 100% well soon. Carole
