Hi I am also new and have never posted before. I can understand the Hurt and pain you are feeling. I discovered my husband was a cg 3 months after we got married and a week after being discharged from hospital due to severe morning sickness. He gambled all our wedding money, 10 grand of my savings, 15 grand of his own savings and also ran up debts in excess of 20 grand. I found this all out just before Christmas last year. Forward to boxing night this year and also my birthday. He finally confesses that he has never stopped gambling and blatantly **** every time I asked if he was. Sorry to hijack your status but I really can relate to you. I just wish I was giving you advice but don’t feel I can giving my current situation.