Dear San. Thank you for replying. I hope by the time you read this you will have got through that exam and look forward to good results. I also hope you read other people’s posts on here for ‘you’ and just take what is useful for your own well-being. If one person’s struggle helps another, that is a blessing for both. It is always interesting to read how others have coped – there are so many common themes, so we know we are not ‘crazy’ and that we are not alone. But of course each of us has to walk a unique path too and may need to make different decisions – this is why we say ‘no one else should judge or try to tell you exactly what to do’ etc.. But the general principles do seem to apply to us all in some way and we often learn these from each other. Wishing you good health and strength. Monique x