Hi B
Another email to treasure – remember he is ‘thinking’ when he writes them.
Last time we were in a group you mentioned something relating to his selfishness and I didn’t know the answer. I won’t write anything here as it was just between you and me but I do have an answer for you and hope to see you in a group soon.  
I know you can do it too – and we will be here as long as you need us.  
I found the lack of communication incredibly hard at first – you can’t help wondering what is going on.   I now know that what was going on was him working on himself without distraction.   You are completely right saying he is on a different wavelength at the moment and I think when the outside world buts in that wavelength can go up or down. 
Keep getting balanced and relaxed – I like the sound of both.  
Speak soon