so sorry for you. just separated from my husband of 13 years. it’s really hard. i cry all the time. im hoping this will give him an incentive to quit gambling. didn’t know what else to do. I’m tired of the excuses— the same excuses ur husband uses. I just wish I would have done this a long time ago cuz now I’m 14 years older and it’s really scarey to be alone. I hate it.