Thank you Jenny,
My best friend is on alert if I need to run, she lives closer than my parents. Another friend of mine is a chief of police, and we have a code word if I need help. Then, my parents, and sister are on alert if I need to get out of there. The next two weeks, he is on call for a few days during the week, so I get some space from him. He does not know that I have organized my safety net, and I just think he is in denial that things are pretty bad between us. But, I am looking forward to the next three nights without him, and hopefully have a little peace in my home.