Thank you RG, Monica , Steev, StevieV and Vera
I’m not sure how but I missed most of these replies … I think I just figured no one would write and didn’t check even though I have been on the site loads.
If someone else was writing what I am about to write I would question their intelligence … he has been watching his p’s and q’s and I’m thinking maybe things are on the up … well mostly … my standards have dropped so much. I’m grateful not to be sworn at and name called ( much!).There is definitely a cycle of some sort at play here.
I am going to read each of your replies again and consider carefully what you all have said.
Thank you so much for your considerate responses.