Thank you so much Velvet! This advice helps me tremendously! I won’t be able to join the chat because we’re going to have a meeting with his mother. We did have a really good in depth conversation last night. He told me that he’s done because he can’t handle the consequences of what he will lose(his family and possibly his life). He said that he knows where his focus has to be and what his triggers are. So I know that only time will tell.