Thanks FG for your post! I am facing a difficult time right now. My Daughter who is addicted to drugs broke up with her boyfriend of 8 years. He is a addict also. So it hasn’t been a healthy relationship. She has resorted to go stay with someone who is also a addict. She keeps texting me about how she dislikes staying there. She has no job or money, so she has few choices. I told her that I would see her on Saturday when I am in the city. Same story. I am not going to enable her with money. She can’t stay with me. She needs to go to rehab. I know this is her choice. So hard. I want to protect her but it would just be enabling her. She is almost 32 years old. This has been going on for 14 years that I am aware of. Too long! I am feeling helpless.