Thanks Laura for your post. I never take you as preachy. I have started to lower my expectations when it comes to family members. And I am getting better with setting up boundaries also. Then there is less hurt and confrontation. It is sad but I think a healthy way to deal with dysfunction. I surprised my Mom with lunch today, a variety of wings, potatoe and pasta salads from our local deli. She was happy. I am trying a new church tomorrow. Kind of excited!! The problem that I am finding in regards to volunteering here is that they want a commitment of 30 or more hours weekly. I help with my Grandson a lot and don’t want to be tied down. Maybe through the church I can find ways to help my community. I am more open now to meeting people and hopefully build friendships. Life is good.
