Thank you for writing. I needed that . I am letting his addiction beat me down. I watched him act like the victim in court. Your are exactly right he was looking for enablement, he is so good at that. I just constantly ask myself why .. why .. why was our family not his bottom line, I would ‘of bet ‘ before to anyone that we were his bottom line. The pain is exactly like you said because I tried so many times and he just keeps gambling. So hard to understand why he makes those choices over keeping his family. I need to rebuild my wall and try to look forward.. or you are right again.. Im going to regret it.
thanks for listening and responding , Sheryl