You are right jilly what you’ve wrote. I think the first thing I should do is to tell my friend and see if she gives me some advice. It’s so unbelievably hard to open your mouth and start saying what is going on with your life. It feels so normal to live like that, everyone has problems in their life so why should you think yours is something bad. That’s how I think sometimes. But only cuz I’ve been hearing it from my husband and it’s just glued in my head! But I keep reading and getting more determined to tell someone outside his family. I know they care but they would never suggest divorce cuz at the end of the day it’s their son and you wouldn’t like to getting your son divorced, specially if there are grandchildren. So I’m starting to feel that need to tell someone….
Thanks jilly! This is what I need. Encouragement and words of understanding which gives me that hope and feeling that I need to start some changes, that it’s not normal to be living like this.
I think it takes time to get that message.
