My boyfriend decided that we needed to get money together quickly for a deposit for our first home together. He started off by gambling small amounts and was winning (so he says), but then the tables turned and he lost it and more, then he wanted to try and get it back but lost more. All the while I was going about my daily life blissfully unaware of what he was doing. Eventually he admitted his problem, we sat down talked it out cleared the debts and got on with daily life. But a few months later it happened again, again we sat down and I said he needed to get help, "yes of course" was his reply and he assured me that he had. Two months on and we are again in the same situation, I am now in debt and do not know what to do for the best.