[Dm2020]

1st day today rang gamcare. On cusp of losing my family due to this gambling issue I had. I am bold saying had as i think i am over it but wish to completely get rid of any repeat.
nI have build thousands of hidden debt and wasted savings I have lied about. I’ve had to come clean on everything. Ashamed, heartbroken does not even sum this up. My wife and family are truly devastated and I am rock bottom. I will bounce back this will not get me. I have come clean I have no feelings right now but I know I no longer have to lie or steal- that to me has released anxiety and stress I have been hiding. Whilst no excuse I feel I can start again and be completely transparent.
nI don’t know how I can repair this without putting my family through more pain. If anyone has starters pls let me know I have opened up all my finances as a start and booked a session with gamcare to kick things off.

[dunc]

Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

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[dunc]

Hi

Its great to see you’ve taken an important step, well a few important steps..

being honest with others allows you to be honest with yourself and this is such an important thing to do . Secondly seeking professional support is in my opinion a great way to move forward

Your line “I don’t know how I can repair this without putting my family through more pain” the pain is there, will you cause more pain by actively seeking help… or will they if you commit actually be given the space to heal and recover

It doesn’t happen overnight but it does happen if and I say again “IF” you 100% commit to recovery

Be proud of your actions and Id strongly advise your wife gets support, this can be done through Gamcare also or indeed our online groups and forums https://www.gamblingtherapy.org/en/why-not-try-our-friends-and-family-online-support-groups

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