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  • #9424
    stanciulete
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    I want stop betting..but is so’ hard…a half of mr enjoy losing money…and is a hard fight..today is another first day when i said..stop iy i will give up..i will never bet again..i’m such a liar….i will never give up without help..i want to instal k9 ..on my phone…eill be a good step ? Please tell me..and help me..i work as bartender at a pub..and all my tips and salary goes at gambling..sports..i have a vetting house across the road…if i will instal k9 and stop betting on the internet i have a chance to not bet there ? ..i’m new here ..please tell me ?….need answers please– 04.07.2013 19:37:33: post edited by stanciulete.

    #9425
    alwaysthefish
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    hey stanciuelete and welcome to this forum. yes, quitting gambling is hard. Most people here will tell you it’s hard, but you can do it. Well, the truth is, you may or may not be able to quit gambling. Quitting gambling is very hard. Or to rephrase W. Churchill "quitting gambling is very easy, I must have quit a thousand *****".
    Installing K9 on your mobile device won’t help. If you’re on an android device install gamblock. It’s pricey though. But it’ll be well worth it. But if there’s a bookie across the street and you get paid cash every day, it’s very hard. I’ve been there. I worked as a waiter over 20 years ago and I would blow all my hard-earned money playing slots in Amsterdam. Then one day, coming home from work, I wanted to go and play slots again, but instead, without thinking, I started running home as fast as I could. I literally ran, I ran for life. And I stopped playing slots then. It still amazes me that I was able to do that and that it worked. Totally amazes me to this day. I did continue going to casino and losing there, something I was fighting for decades. But I never went back to slots since that run for life.
    There’s no universal answer, find out what works for you. Experiment. Most people here swear by "one day at a time" mantra and it’s fine as long as it works for them. It’s not something that worked for me, so you have to experiment.
    Worse comes to worse, find a goon and tell him you’ll pay him 5K euros (or whatever is a lot of money to you) if he ever catches you gambling. Sign a paper stating so. See how that works out for ya. Worked out for me.
     If you dine with the devil, bring a long spoon

    #9426
    stanciulete
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    Hey thanks…i will tell for the start a paper with the brooker acros the road from my work..activate k9..and close bet365 account..maybe i will reagin me..my family and my ex-girlfriend..she want me clean..

    #9427
    stanciulete
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    Even now i feel that i want to bet..is a strong feeling..i need to be stroger..

    #9428
    p
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    Hi there
    If you can ban from that place across from work. Get someone to mind money, go to counselling, go to Gamblers anonymous meetings.. do all you can to fight this addiction. It is very very sneaky when it worms its way into our brains. Gotta give it time to get some clear thinking time by staying away. Once you bet once you will find it very hard to stop. For me there is no inbetween, i cannot bet once, i cant bet just a little. It ***** to be total abstinence but one day at a time. Find other hobbies other interests.. write lists, plan your days, when you get a thought to gmable, delay it for half hour at a time. It wont kill you not to gamble it may kill you if you continue
    P

    #9429
    stanciulete
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    Thanks P…a lot..i will try to find GA..and see them

    #9430
    stanciulete
    Participant

    Thanks P…a lot..i will try to find GA..and see them

    #9431
    xinstory1990
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    dude, let’s keep talking and it might help…I have been in this situation not less than a thousand *****, that’s called compulsive gambling, and we can’t find it by ourselves, it’s the same like ***** but it will suck all your money instead of your health…man please listen to me, I think both of us we already committed error once (well, I committed twice), but if we really but REALLY realize our fault then there will never be late… let’s wake up before it it too late… gambling is only a deadly cycle (if you win you don’t wanna quit cuz you want you winning becomes bigger, not even when you lose cuz it’s obviously you wanna chase your loses, that’s why I fell in this big hole from a couple hundred DLL until now, 5,3000)….I really appreciate this experience that we both share to each other, like you said, let us help each other.

    #9432
    stanciulete
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    I don’t want to lose new money…i want to work for them..and keep it this time..im really fired up against my actualy life..thanks a lot for sharing this..i feel so sick..i don’t eat…is terible at the moment..i was such a **** all my life..and gambling is major factor for these lies…i want a change..and these here is a new preocupation ..and when i feel thirsty fot gambping..i enter here..on therapy …and i wrote…i don’t even think..at berdych..at radwanska..or barcelona..thanks…poker..and slots machines now aren’t a danger for me..this is good..and xin..sorry if my englesh isn’t so good..sorry all..take care these day are really hardest days or weeks maybe of our lifes..and we shar it..its good

    #9433
    xinstory1990
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    Originally posted by stanciulete
    I don’t want to lose new money…i want to work for them..and keep it this time..im really fired up against my actualy life..thanks a lot for sharing this..i feel so sick..i don’t eat…is terible at the moment..i was such a **** all my life..and gambling is major factor for these lies…i want a change..and these here is a new preocupation ..and when i feel thirsty fot gambping..i enter here..on therapy …and i wrote…i don’t even think..at berdych..at radwanska..or barcelona..thanks…poker..and slots machines now aren’t a danger for me..this is good..and xin..sorry if my englesh isn’t so good..sorry all..take care these day are really hardest days or weeks maybe of our lifes..and we shar it..its good
    Don’t worry about that my brother, the writing grammar is not what we are looking for, we both know it, so you just go ahead when you feel the need to write, and YES, every time you feel the “darkside” inside of you keep raising and pushing you to gamble you should come here immediately and WRITE, brother, I swear I will come here whenever the time allows me to help you OK? in fact, I think you are doing good at the beginning already.

    #9434
    xinstory1990
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    Originally posted by stanciulete
    I don’t want to lose new money…i want to work for them..and keep it this time..im really fired up against my actualy life..thanks a lot for sharing this..i feel so sick..i don’t eat…is terible at the moment..i was such a **** all my life..and gambling is major factor for these lies…i want a change..and these here is a new preocupation ..and when i feel thirsty fot gambping..i enter here..on therapy …and i wrote…i don’t even think..at berdych..at radwanska..or barcelona..thanks…poker..and slots machines now aren’t a danger for me..this is good..and xin..sorry if my englesh isn’t so good..sorry all..take care these day are really hardest days or weeks maybe of our lifes..and we shar it..its good
    Don’t worry about that my brother, the writing grammar is not what we are looking for, we both know it, so you just go ahead when you feel the need to write, and YES, every time you feel the “darkside” inside of you keep raising and pushing you to gamble you should come here immediately and WRITE, brother, I swear I will come here whenever the time allows me to help you OK? in fact, I think you are doing good at the beginning already.

    #9435
    stanciulete
    Participant

    You know that i will come here..for me..becouse i want to help you..if you will be good ..i gave a hope…and i will not play..you have an example..and can be good for us..maybe in future we will get out here for us our facebook..and talk there..we can have trust eachother in time..maybe that will help us..i don’t know..

    #9436
    vicky1980
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    Hey friend! You sound like enough is enough. I feel the same. Thanks for writing me, it helps to hear from someone who understands. One thing I’ve realised as I’m trying to rid myself of this addiction is that the thrill is what I’m chasing. When I get money I use it to buy another thrill. I’m setting it straight in my head right now, money is to purchase products and services, I can get my thrills for free! I’m going out tonight to create some FREE thrills, to reward myself for being me. I think you should do the same. Don’t forget to write and tell me what you did to get your free thrill. Stay safe and keep your chin up. I understand you x

    #9437
    stanciulete
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    Thanks vick..is great to have u here..now i’m at work..i work 16 hours per day..2 week in a month..but next week i will try something new..is good to havecsomeone who understeand me…this is a great morning.i want a clean day..is good becouse every day i’m motivated by that..

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