Hi there, Please help me. I adore my husband, he is genuinely a wonderful person, but I am so sad when the money i donate from working to our joint account is spent backing horses. I feel like I might as well be working for charity, commuting 3 hours a day, missing my 7 month old son, and I am also pregnant with our second child. I am sad and upset and all I want to do is cry. I have told my husband all of this, and he is genuinely remorseful but obviously we can’t get back the money. I am so tired and sad, even though I have hundreds of things to be thankful for, I just want to lie down and close my eyes, and wake up and none of it is real. What can I do to help myself? I recognise I cannot help him.